Adult online dating isn’t without it’s frustrations. Sure, the ‘to the point’ style interactions certainly help cull out a lot of frustrating interactions found on mainstream dating sites. But still, people are people no matter where you find them. And that means dramas can fire up.
The good news is that you can help stave off the drama by being aware of your online surroundings.
Here are a few good signs that the person you’re chatting with isn’t a good match.
They Seem To Only Want Personal Information
If they keep asking you personal information, it may be a bad sign. Shemale Sex Date is a discreet dating experience. The entire point is anonymous hookups.
Yes, safety is a big deal. Yes, safety often requires the exchange of some personal information. No, they don’t need your middle name or your Facebook page.
Use common sense when interacting with potential hookups on any adult dating site.
They Never Want To Meet
Hookup sites work under a rather standard, upfront mission: too hookup for agreed upon sex. That’s the whole idea. Sure, some people may enjoy cybersex and chatting, but for the most part, it’s all about meeting in person.
If you are feeling the good vibes and chemistry from someone but they never want to meet, you might want to inquire deeper. But be cautious how you approach the situation. Safety should always be at the forefront of everyone’s thoughts. A person acting evasive in meeting may be towing the line of safety. You should appreciate that.
A good way to gain an understanding in these situations is to note your understanding regarding safety.
“I understand we should always be safe before meeting anyone online, that said, I’m interested in meeting you and want to know what I can do to ease your mind and better qualify myself.”
See how that works?
They Stand You Up
Being stood up even once is rather annoying. If someone doesn’t message you prior, its likely they simply did not care about your time.
Yes, things happen. And more things happen in discreet dating situations such as cold feet or current relationship dramas. But most likely, that person should be able to contact you prior to you sitting alone at a coffee table staring endlessly at a door.
They Ghost You More Than Once
On adult online dating sites such as Shemale Sex Date, it’s quite likely you’ll experience the act of ghosting.
Look, let’s keep things real. Some people who use adult online dating sites are married, or in relationships and don’t want to blow their cover. So at times, life gets hectic and they become less responsive. The hope is that they pop back up when their time is more free.
But others simply ghost for no good reason other than “shopping” for the perfect shemale / cisgender hookup experience. They lead you on then vanish into thin air. Sometimes these folks come back into the picture after they’ve exhausted other options only to ghost you again.
You gotta figure that if they’ve ghosted you twice, a third is on deck.
They Tell You Contradicting Things
Sometimes when you are chatting with someone anonymously online, things they say won’t match up. You usually note these contradictions when someone is discussing their personal life. For example, what they do for a living, where they’ve lived, or even their age.
When you hear tid-bits which don’t match what they’ve told you before, this is a red flag. It may mean that someone is acting disingenuously and not being truthful. Of course, you shouldn’t be asking tons of personal information, but over time, conversations happen. And in those conversations we do expect consistency.
When information stops adding up, it probably means the person isn’t being forthright.